I'd love to offer you some great piece of financial wisdom or some secret to a lasting relationship, but I can't. I can't not because I am incapable of doing so, but because I seem to excel more at sharing my raw, unfiltered experiences and feelings. If you haven't already noticed, Josh is the more practical one in the relationship, and I absolutely love him for it. One of us has to keep the other grounded and that person tends to be Josh.
Before I go any further, I must say that this post will probably be considerately shorter than the others that Josh and I have written. In a way, the smallness of this post ties in perfectly with what I'm about to say. I could always say so much more, but there are some things words cannot express.
For as long as I can remember, I've had this one quote stuck to several of my Pinterest boards. It's always been one of my favorite quotes. It says, "Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you'll look back and realize they were big things." It's simple enough and easy to grasp. But how many of us can truly say that we live by this quote? I know I don't, though I certainly try. We can speed through our lives, never remembering to stop and enjoy every moment. It's only after those precious moments have long passed that we realize just how precious they are to us.
I had one of those precious moments just yesterday. After Josh and I went to church, we took time to read various relationship books as well as quote some of our favorite Bible verses. A while later, when we were working on our join blog post, John Legend's "All of Me" started playing in the background. At that point, Josh stopped typing, and we both looked at each other. No words were needed. We didn't need to tell each other what we were feeling. We already knew. I'll never forget that moment. It was so perfect and inexplicably beautiful. As Josh began to softly sing the lyrics to me, I practically melted into his embrace, tears rolling down both of our faces. And even through the tears, he kept softly singing into my ear.
I don't say all of this to make you think that we're the most amazing couple ever and that it's all sunshine and rainbows for us because it's not. In fact, we've often had to sing through the tears in our relationship (metaphorically speaking) just to make it through. I've shared this story to remind you that little moments like this are what we should live for. They're what we should remember and hold onto in even the darkest of times. That moment that Josh and I shared will be one that I'll take with me to the grave. It may seem inconsequential to some, but I was fortunate enough to recognize it's beauty as it happened. I was able to cherish it and truly savor it before it became a part of the past.
If there's one thing I want you to take away from this post, it's that time is fleeting. We don't even know if we'll be here tomorrow. Thus, it's all the more important to make the most of the time we have left and recognize the inherent value of the little things in life.